Many men think of this wonderful fusion of intimate acts, but they seldom step up to the plate. They either fear rejection or they aren't sure how to initiate a sensual massage. The truth is that most women are very receptive to a massage, but how receptive your woman will be to a sensual massage depends heavily on her mood. You can help by starting with a regular massage and easing your way into a more intimate affair. Here's how to get started.
PrepareBefore you get started, you'll need some items apart from your hands and a body to put them on. To help you maximize her enjoyment of the evening's entertainment, make sure you invest in baby wipes, massage oil or lotion that is safe for internal use, a blindfold, and a towel.
As well, there are some things you need to think about before you jump right into the sensual massage:
- Your hands must be clean and your nails trimmed.
- Your hands should be warm.
- Never apply the oil or lotion directly onto her body; place a good amount in your hands, rub them together, and then begin the massage.
- Start out with a light touch; your objective is to arouse her, not bruise her.
Give her a full-body sensual massageThis doesn't mean that you should attempt the tedious task of massaging every square inch of her body. Rather, give her a sensual massage with your body. Your hands aren't your only tools; make good use of your oiled arms, chest and stomach.
If you don't think that she'll fully appreciate your torso, feel free to put your mouth and tongue into the sensual massage mix instead. Kissing, licking and warm breath on flesh are usually welcomed with an erotic response.
Use your hands in different capacitiesWhile you use one hand to caress her body, use the other to explore her on the inside. In particular, find her G-spot with your finger and bring her to an earth-shattering climax. This would be an ideal time to incorporate the blindfold, as removing one of her senses will increase the stimulation she'll feel from your sensual massage.
When you're giving her a sensual massage, reach all the important zones.